night early spring in the drizzle

Car arrived. Get off haven't stand, and saw the LiChangLin fly-over the white-haired old man. 2010 spring day, night early spring in the drizzle, huge how he dressed as thin? ! LiChangLin secretly in the old man.

Taplin also saw LiChengLin and his colleagues, a brisk walk under the overpass, his side young assistant WangXiaoYan even ran can't catch.

In sichuan FuXiao ten days of study was soon over. LiChengLin and other three teachers harvest are considerable. Listen to the FuXiao of JingPinKe, and excellent teachers exchange... Tighten, taplin for their financed 6000 multivariate further fee, only spent 1000 multivariate, the rest of the money, several teacher prepared according to provide American professor taplin preschool, put the big shows nest elementary school, not only because of preschool equipped taplin zadok more closely, they also want to let the mountains doll enjoy modern education.

middle schools and elementary school students

13 years, his footprint in printed with China's urban-rural mountains.

In sichuan, Beijing, Shanghai, guangzhou, chongqing... He made hundreds of lectures, listeners has colleges, middle schools and elementary school students, children, parents, teachers also have hotel clerk, civil servants, laid-off workers. Thousands of teachers received his training, accepted his education idea advocated. 13 years, he with Chinese scholars, publishers cooperation, to work out the parents are educator "" the child is the wealth of this family education works 19 of writing and translation, publishing.

The mountain in some americans rebuilding love elementary school

In TianQuanXian big nest elementary school taught 13 years book, LiChengLin was the first to big cities chengdu to study. However, his heart is steadfast. Along the way, taplin professor, the American old man, telephone call: "constantly car where?" Where turn several bus, sit where change... Like a nag them.

the Chinese people's education career

A foreigner, no selfish motives, the Chinese people's education career as his career, what is this spirit?

In 1996 by 2009, he 60 to 73 years, in his American passport, visa, nearly 100 times 22 times sign to China. Julian taplin -- an American man, in China flowered he flowery red-beatiful-unique.

He is a psychologist, American Oregon university professor. 13 years ago, as the UN KeJiaoWen organization special representative, he came to China for academic visit. He didn't think it, this is an opportunity, in China, his life another fan hope of the gate was opened.

"In 1996, I was diagnosed with chronic leukaemia, incoming problem is: will I live long, how should I had good rest. In 2003, and I received a big heart operation. Through the hardships, I started to twice the weight of dian life. It let me see, interpersonal friendship, understanding, caring and mutual aid is the most precious thing." Taplin make a choice, launched on minors education and mental health education "china-u.s. Cooperation family education (TSP) project", the partners is China's sichuan province cass.

the mother has no mother pity

"In fact coffin a lift, the shape of the ashes will certainly change." LiangHong said.

Even spend the money to buy relationship burial, the family members of the deceased also dare not cry, dare not loudly festivals, but "if it's fine." cremated

LiangHong couldn't understand this phenomenon. "Cry is human expression sentiment and most primitive way, now even cry all dare not, people should have much depressed?"

Each time I went home, she made the first thing ShangFen to her mother. In 2008 the back village, family, go to 20 multi-port mother the graveyard of limited. Firecrackers, LiangHong and family are kneel kowtow. Her 3-year-old son also "very clever" to follow. After burning paper, the whole family sat in cemetery after the edge, Lao with unhealthy effect, eating portable take of food, until the sun before she left. This is their house habit.

Ke is finished, the son asked head after LiangHong, who is lying in the grave.

"The grandmother. She is my mom's mom, mom was most close person." LiangHong said.

"Mother, the mother has no mother pity." Son said.

He then asked why did your mom to my grandma kowtow. LiangHong told him that it is a way to express feelings, "as mother held you do the same.

A villagers said these graves

Her another relative died, families in one night will be buried in the ground dead secretly. Family not to wear XiaoYi, dared to set forward, more nobody dared to cry, "a bit sad contemplation17." But soon or has been found. The town for a few people will dig out the bodies of ceremonies. Families repeatedly obstruct. Finally, in a local prominent figures of bargaining, pay a sum of money and settles.

With the implementation of cremated before a few years, dig graves burn a promethean's things have happened. Later tube too loose. Former party beam QingDao said, now mostly find relationship 12000 dollars, upper pannonia secretly bury it.sitc, "see you relationship hard." He also calculate a bill. Bodies to pull county cremation, as a into more than 300 yuan, cremation fee and urn also 400 yuan. After cremation, farmers still buy coffin buried into the ground. Before burial, the village planning has cemetery, cremated after beginning, cemetery no, everyone can only be buried in his own field, "instead of waste a lot of cultivated land".

Out of the fields, there are many grave. A villagers said these graves, mostly in recent years of practice.

Never mind is also struggling satisfy old burial desire. The LiangHong his brother-in-law, 2004 when he passed away, leave word insisted burial. Family is helpless, please a Mr. Yin and Yang, according to the guidance advice on the nail, feet toenail cut and keep it. After come back, everyone in the family will be cremated ashes of dead by humanoid sown in the coffin, fingernail and nails should be in position in.

leads to great scholartree road

However, even Chinese New Year, also not be LiangHong childhood scene. In the ancient tradition of the lunar year to make a DaGuoCai clans, after they were done, in order to send a bowl in accordance with degress, let everybody taste. Therefore, every eat dish, have of their families. This tradition, as everybody moved new, faded away.

The village head tree big scholartree there. Under the tree was one of the most busy place in the village. If summer, have a meal cent, many people will be holding bowl, in big under looking for a stone pagoda tree sat down, and discuss the new that had taken place in the village. Of course, they will also comment their meals.

"Here is like press conference. It's trivial, will be everyone comment to talk to." LiangGuangZheng recalls.

But now, leads to great scholartree road, weeds. A gust of wind blew very, snowflake danced in the leaves.

The village disappear a lot of things, even is crying.

For saving land, henan rural in early 1990s requires cremated. And in the local culture, burial is the most ideal choice. Therefore, some families trying to escape to be cremated.

LiangHong great uncle died, the old man requirements burial. Family did not know what to do, and discuss with cement the coffin lifted, "who will grilled grave and who desperately". Finally, torre relationship made a fine, burial.

leave the children with parents

"LiangGuangZheng, this tyrannised you, to return with me!" Bearer cried.

"Didn't see I'm repairing school? Afternoon again say." LiangGuangZheng answer.

To say "yes", and turned to leave. Until the afternoon LiangGuangZheng go only accepts the populace tyrannised.

"Political trengthen age, education can't relax. Now that the economy is so good, but closed. After school children do?" The old man sighs.

Burial and cremated

At the beginning of the summer of 2008 LiangHong back when, zhi village neither husband had invited her to dinner at the home. That day, in accounting home help many people. Everyone in the will of laughing, is very lively. After dinner, some people to wash the dishes, some people wipe the table, the remaining part of love "doudizhu".

Such lively scene, not only LiangHong, even is the cheese, and seldom see neither in recent years.

Go out working person, mostly during the Chinese New Year when go home. At that time, the village will be busy for a while. They will each door, drink and play mahjong, "doudizhu". Usually the Lantern Festival passes, they will lock chamber door, leave the children with parents, each rush thing.